My Thoughts on Good and Less Desirable Actions and Behaviour
What is right? What is wrong? Can anything truly be defined as either? As we know, we learn from every experience along our path—both good and less desirable. So, once again, is there truly a right or a wrong? Everything depends on our point of view.
For most people, myself included, learning comes through examples and experiences. We are inspired by positive actions and behaviours and, naturally, we tend to follow those good examples because, for most of us, they resonate and fulfil something within our hearts, touching our souls and making us feel that we are on a better path.
At the same time, we also learn from less desirable actions and behaviours—those we might judge as negative influences or poor examples. These are the ones we usually choose not to follow, having seen and experienced their impact and less desirable outcomes.
For many of us, these less desirable behaviours serve a purpose. Though they may create a sense of disagreement, they also lead us to an important realisation: that it is better to act and be different. In this way, our own judgment guides us toward a better way of being.
Both what we consider good and its opposite have an influence. Each, in its own way, inspires a desire to improve—to become better, to act better, and to grow into someone we can be proud of. Through our choices, we cultivate patience and come to appreciate the value of kindness, love, tolerance, and much more.
There are countless examples of actions and behaviours that have helped shape a more tolerant world—one that increasingly accepts differences and embraces diverse ways of living and experiencing love. While positive actions clearly guide us in this direction, less desirable ones also contribute by showing us what we may wish to avoid or transform.
We live in a world defined by choice, and learning is central to our existence. Without differences, there would be no choices, and without choices, we would not grow stronger in our sense of self. If less desirable realities did not exist, neither would the desirable ones—contrast is what makes choice possible.
Our beliefs are strengthened precisely because we are free to choose; they are not imposed upon us. We evolve according to the level of our thoughts and actions, and our awareness of this continues to deepen.
I feel gratitude toward those who show us what is desirable, but I also feel gratitude toward those souls who, through their life path, their incarnation, take on roles that make them difficult to love—whether due to their actions, character, or circumstances. Though it may not be easy to see, I view them as courageous higher souls who have accepted a more challenging and less desirable path. In doing so, they become catalysts, helping others understand, through contrast, the outcomes and consequences of different choices.
The greater purpose for all is the elevation of our consciousness. By recognising these differences, we are guided toward embracing a way of being that may raise the collective state of all worlds.
With time, perhaps, there will be less need for such undesirable examples. As we continue to learn—both individually and collectively—we may carry forward the lessons of the past, grow through the present, and consciously move toward a better future.
Until then, let us ensure that our own personal choices are as uplifting as possible, for the benefit of our world.